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Home » Guest Post » Smart Parenting: How to Talk to Your Kids About Social Media

Smart Parenting: How to Talk to Your Kids About Social Media

Published August 12, 2016 | Updated August 12, 2016 | By Keri Lyn.

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How to talk to your kids about social media

Eileen headshot 2Note From Keri Lyn ~ I just wanted to mention how thrilled I am to have Eileen guest posting this series on the blog! Eileen has been a dear friend for several years. She is an amazing mom and honestly THE very funnest person to visit Disneyland with. I love her passion for protecting our kids and families in social media and I am SO thrilled to have her sharing her expertise here weekly with all of us!

With that, I introduce to you my friend Eileen: 

Hi there! My name is Eileen Calandro and I’m thrilled to create content for She Saved readers once a week. (Thank you, Keri Lyn!) I’ve been teaching classes about parenting kids on social media for years and also enjoy doing assemblies about being good digital citizens for elementary school kids. I used to teach first grade before I had my three sons (it’s not just a television show from the 60’s) and recently worked in social media as a community manager for six years. Now I’ve combined my love of teaching and social media into creating my classes and assemblies.

I write like I talk -and I talk a lot! (I listen, too. Life’s all about balance, right?) I hope this weekly conversation offers you helpful information about parenting your digital citizen and ways to connect with your kids about social media.

Smart Parenting: How to Talk to Your Kids About Social Media

Some kids want to act like spending time on social media is just like hanging a massive sign on their bedroom door with the words “KEEP OUT!” written on it. They want social media to be their own personal space. But the fact of the matter is, it’s not always a safe space, so today I am going to share with you my thoughts on how to talk to your kids about social media.

Parents know the world of social media is the last place we should “keep out.” Social media allows our kids to communicate with friends and the rest of the world in ways that seem impossible to imagine even ten years ago. These countless connections make social media enticing and all-encompassing. This also makes it a massive arena to try to parent in. We know the dangers and we read the headlines. We want our kids safe, but kids want parents to leave them alone. What should parents do?

One thing to do: talk. Start talking, keep talking, and don’t stop talking. And listen (of course!). But maybe kids don’t want to have a conversation. “I know, Mom!” shuts down a conversation quickly, right? Of course they ‘know!’ Kids can feel like social media exists as their area of expertise and parents can’t possibly understand it. They say they know the dangers and how to behave there.

(I think about how many things I claimed to KNOW when I was thirteen and how many things I declared my mom didn’t know. These lists were looooooooooong for both sides. **sigh** Nice to know some things never change!)

When I use the following scenario in the classes I teach about raising good digital citizens, it helps parents create a strong foundation for why they need to be present on social media and have continuing conversations about it. I hope this can help you as well:

Imagine social media as a foreign country. Certain experiences can only happen there and it uses different words to create its own language; the apps look like they could be the flags for each land and places you travel online all seem a little different from one another. Most important of all – your kids live there!

You certainly wouldn’t send your kids to Europe alone. You probably wouldn’t even take a trip there on a family vacation without learning a bit about the country (or countries) where you would spend time. You would want to learn some key words and phrases, you’d learn how to get around and what to see, and you would especially want to know the customs and social rules for experiencing this new culture and place.

It’s the same with social media.

Explain to your kids you want to be on social media and understand it because they live there for a period of time every day. Just like if they were spending a large chunk of time in a land that was geographically far away from you, you would want information about this place or you’d even insist you travel with your kids.

Of course every conversation isn’t one a parent needs to hear or read. Think of what most thirteen-year-olds talk about –these talks can stay private. But we know what other conversations and what else can happen on social media or that our kids can talk with people we want them to stay away from. These situations give parents the reason to get on social media and have important conversations like this one. The ways we know social media can hurt our kids motivates us to prevent that KEEP OUT sign from going up when it comes to online behavior. The next time you see that sign waving in your direction, think about the foreign lands where our kids travel online and how you want to know their destinations.

Who knows? Maybe presenting this to your kids will open up the opportunity for them to guide you into a world they know a lot about. Let them take you on a tour and see where you end up. Keep being amazing, connected parents and helping your kids be good digital citizens!

I’ll see you next week to talk about ways to start a conversation with your kids about social media. (I love this topic and am excited to share it. See you then!)

Have a topic you want to know more about? Let me know! I’ll write about it. And if I don’t have an answer for you, I’ll find one. (Promise!) We’re all in this parenting arena together. Thanks for reading and I look forward to connecting with you again soon! ~ Eileen

Connect with Eileen

If you are looking to learn more about and to stay up to date on the latest social media happenings and trends, especially where kids are concerned, then I highly encourage you to follow Eileen in social media!

You can learn more about Eileen here: www.calandroconsulting.com
and follow her here:
Facebook: Calandro Consulting
Twitter: @calandroconsult

 

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